Adding some humour to the situation
And the saaaaaaga continues..
Emails back and forth.. Mine gentle/ passive, hers cruel/ aggressive.
She was doing her usual cycle ..silent treatment, then cruel email not giving a fuck about my feelings, then the… I need to have space from you..
Yep as usual no healing, no closure.. just run baby run and leave your shit behind you ..
So I snapped, I’ve had enough of the BS. I’m always so fucking kind, so fucking gentle and so fucking PC.
Suddenly my communication did a turn around.. probably because I do not give a crap anymore what happens..
I sent 3 messages: (I was on a roll..)
1.”You talk about being brave… huh… you lay down your laws on what people are allowed to feel in a situation. You do not allow anything to heal because when it gets tough, you’re too busy running away like a weak b*tch!!!
Hey .. guess what I haven’t left the ring..
You are behaving like the only way you saw growing up.. this is the way your father communicates … do you want to communicate like that or do you want to figure out a healthier way. Maybe my style is passive but yours is aggressive. Just maybe we can heal this together… if you quit f*cking running..”
2.”Hey!! Guess what I found my inner bitch and I like her!
I’m always too f*cking kind and gentle on you, what you really need is a good kick in the pants.”
3.”You think you know everything.. you don’t so bow down cause I’m Queen .. bitch!!! Wow feels good.. Imma gonna keep it rolling.. “
*** Okay.. last one got a little crazy :o) but I’m feeling a little crazy after all this drama. So will it work? Hey I really don’t fucking care anymore but it made me laugh.. for once.